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10/04/2013

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I don't regret the things that I have done, but I only ever regret the things that I have not done or should have done.
Life seems to push & pull us in all sorts of different directions, to be something.. to be a somebody.. striving for money, for success, for happiness.. we live & dream so much into the future that we forget to live in the present moment. As I sit here and reminisce .. I realize that life is all but a gamble.. to give & take, and the sad part is that sometimes to achieve the things that you want .. you have to in turn give up & lose the things that means the most.
I wish I could turn back time, go back to a simpler day .. when I didnt have much, when I thought my life sucked. For now that I have grown and is seeing 'life' for what it really is.. I realized that way back then.. life was actually good. I may not have had it all, but I had such loving people in my life that truly loved & cared, that no one can ever replace.. And all the riches in the world could never buy the love that they had given me & the memories that was shared together through the ups & the downs.
My only regret.. is that I wish that had I in that moment in time.. told them just how much I loved them and how much they mean to me. That I appreciate all & everything that was done for me, & instead of sulking & wishing for something more.. I would have just said 'THANK YOU & I love you'. It's funny & ironic.. how I would give up everything that I have now, to just go back to when I had nothing & yet everything in the love of the people who mattered the most. Take it from me kids.. Appreciate what you have.. Open up your heart & your eyes and see things clearer for what they really are... don't take for granted what God has given you..
For one day you will wake up and realize just what you've had and one day it may not be there anymore. Tell the people who means the most, who have done the most for you just how much you appreciate and love them.. for I now know that one of the greatest pain in life is not regretting the things you have done or have said.. It's the regret of the things you should have said & done when you had the chance.

9/21/2013

How I Went From Very Shy to Less Shy

Back in my high school days when I was overtly shy, I used to be an introvert girl filled with awkwardness . I can be described as one question- one answer gal who hates long convos. I excelled in school academically and had been a writer in our school organ but I sucked in making friends. I even remembered my first boyfriend experience....every time  someone asks me things, I would be so shy to speak  that I would only answer a "nod"
Those were the old days ..

As I grew up and moved to a place far from my parents, I experienced things, situations where I have no one to rely on but myself. Sadness filled me and I became tired of that feeling so from there I decided to go outside every once in a while,I started to make an effort to socialize with people I meet . I noticed I smile a lot more, became more optimistic and realized that starting conversations with people is not a very hard thing to do after all...


 So from  very shy I became less shy.









 Overcoming shyness boosts confidence :)

Psychological Facts that you didn’t know


Warning, some of these you may know. I just needed a cool title (; But for some reason, I’m really interested in this kind of stuff :) SO, here are some interesting facts c: 

- Whenever you think about someone a lot, its because they were thinking about you first. 

- Most serial killers can’t climb.

- At the age of 16, 8O% of people have already met the person they are going to marry.

- When you’re in love, you remember 3O% more of your dreams.

- Your pupils dilate when you see someone you love, and when you see someone you hate.

- Shopping & Chocolate are more addictive then LSD & steroids.

- You can only dream about things you already saw, The people & faces you know & have seen in real life. 

- When it’s hot outside, you’re more likely to get into a fight.

- If it takes more then four weeks to get over a breakup, you have fallen in love. 

- If you tear the paper off your drink bottles, you’re sexually frustrated.

- All emotional pain lasts for 12 minutes, anything longer is self-inflicted. 

- People who spend time in the sun, are usually more happy.

- Distracted people are more creative

- When you wake up around 2-3 am without any reasons, there’s an 80% chance someone is staring at you.

- Men are more attracted to women wearing red.

- Angry people are more optomistic

- Swearing helps reduce pain & tension

- People who blush more easily are proven to be more passionate lovers.

- On average, a person falls in love 7 times in their lifetime. 

- When we sleep while hugging a pillow, we actually wish it to be the person we miss and love the most.

- The human brain is much more active at night, then day. 

- The human brain can only take 15O special relationships.

- When you fall in love, you loose two close friends.





Had a blast at Rihanna's Diamond World Tour





http://tiffanyanonuevo.tumblr.com/post/61689095757/rihannaconcert

So many people came -Eargasm :D . I also enjoyed watching by-passers' stylish and odd outfits outside the arena.I also saw lots of celebs there including my idol Anne Curtis Smith... :)